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[creepcake.livejournal.com]

I wonder if my boyfriend can hurt me if he fingers me too much and too hard? Do any of you know if it does?

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[i-feel-broken.livejournal.com]

uhm, ive been scratched and bled so much that we thought i got my period. yeh, it didnt really hurt until like 2 days later. still not fun. and if you arent wet enough that would hurt alot.
cut his finger nails and make sure you're really wet or well lubricated.

[lizzie.livejournal.com]

Make sure his fingernails are cut pretty short.

If you're not wet, use some KY Jelly or something. If you don't, his dry fingers will just make your vagina sore.

I don't know if you've had sex before or not, but if you haven't, it's always best to let him use one finger inside you first, then gradually get to two. If not, he may stretch you too fast and that can hurt, as well.

Generally, as long as he's gentle to begin with, it's more pleasurable than painful! I've just gone through all of it myself recently, and it's a great experience, and Boy knows a lot about me now. *grin*

[princess-vix.livejournal.com]

One of my past lovers was really rough with me so here is my advice. Just make sure you are wet enough and if he does get rough...just tell him to be more gentle. If he cares about you...he won't want to cause you pain.

*hugs*
~Vix