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menstrualhuti have to go to the beach next week and i am terrified of tampons. i just...don't like them or want to use them. i dont know why really...
can anyone convince me to use them or give me any tips? im dyin' here...
can anyone convince me to use them or give me any tips? im dyin' here...
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well...
Date: 2001-08-21 12:12 pm (UTC)Re: well...
Date: 2001-08-21 12:16 pm (UTC)i have no clue what to do. i really wish i didnt have to use one, but the beach....im going to have a panic attack...
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Date: 2001-08-21 12:44 pm (UTC)I still don't like them though and haven't used them since.
But if I can do it, so can you.
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Date: 2001-08-21 12:47 pm (UTC)Re:
Date: 2001-08-21 03:06 pm (UTC)What makes you afraid of them?
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Date: 2001-08-21 04:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2001-08-21 12:46 pm (UTC)Re:
Date: 2001-08-21 12:52 pm (UTC)im an awkward person, my boyfriend will prolly notice me walking like i have a pickle up my arse...
*i suck*
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Date: 2001-08-21 12:58 pm (UTC)more embarassing questions...
Date: 2001-08-21 01:00 pm (UTC)Re: more embarassing questions...
Date: 2001-08-21 01:37 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2001-08-21 02:39 pm (UTC)1. I wouldn't suggest using the applicatorless types (like OB) for your first time. They're tricky to get into place and there's nothing more uncomfortable than a tampon that's not correctly situated.
2. If it's at all avoidable, never remove a tampon right after inserting it. You need to have some liquid in there or it will be uncomfortable to take out. You can reach up there and adjust it if it's uncomfy.
3. Try the slimfits made for teenagers if you're nervous. The big ol superabsorbancy ones can be intimidating.
4. If it's the hangy-down string that bothers you, you could try those "Instead" cups. They are at the grocery store so they'd probably be easier to get your hands on than the Keeper or the sea sponges. I've tried them and while I still prefer tampons, they do work.
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Date: 2001-08-21 04:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2001-08-21 02:49 pm (UTC)I think there was a post a few weeks ago in this community on a similar subject where lots of tips were offered, too.
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Date: 2001-08-21 04:06 pm (UTC)i have to get over that pretty quick tho...
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Date: 2001-08-21 08:16 pm (UTC)I don't think it's possible to accidentally put a tampon in "the wrong place". If it feels uncomfortable, though, probably it's not in far enough or wasn't inserted at the right angle. You just have to get where it's comfortable for you (even if "comfortable" sounds like an impossible task, if it's in right, you probably won't feel it. Most of the time, I can't.)
I had to use a mirror with a leg up on the toilet the first few times I tried (hope this isn't too much of a visual here.) And use your fingers to spread your lips far apart. Grip around the ridge of the applicator with your fingers, and insert the tampon until your fingers touch your body. Try to find the right angle... sometimes it takes a while. Sitting/standing in dif. positions to do this sometimes helps. Then push the tube all the way to that ridge while still holding on to the applicator, but don't pull the applicator out until you've pushed the tube all the way in. (I apologize if my ignorant termonology is confusing, if it is, feel free to ask me what the heck I'm babbling about.) I probably made it sound like some acrobatic feat, but just try to get so you're comfortable.
The string part was a little freaky to me at first, but I think you can probably get used to it. And just for the record, when I first tried to use tampons I didn't have a clue what I was doing... It took some practice. But it was worth it for me.
Hope this doesn't lie in the category of "too much information!" I hope that this can give you some help.
Ummm....
Tampons good.... pads BAAAAD!!!! lol
Date: 2001-08-21 05:49 pm (UTC)(This is the original post if you wanted to see it.)
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I gotta say, I can't live without my tampons. Those messy pads... ick. NO thank you. I never feel tampons when I use them... not even the string. But in the beginning I had a hard time with them too.
Here's my story of tampon stupidity:
1. Used the applicator wrong (yes, it's possible!) I'd put it in and instead of pushing the plunger, I'd end up sliding the TOP part of the applicator down. Thus leaving the tampon further down than it's supposed to be. Boy was that uncomfortable... not painful or anything, but annoying.
2. Putting it in at the wrong angle. Sometimes it's a comfort thing. I've learned I gotta have on leg off the floor and aim for my lower back. (sorry for the visual ladies)
3. Taking it out too early/often. If that puppy hasn't been in there long enough it's gonna be DRY and that means an owie when you take it out (perhaps that's what you meant by vacuum sensation). If your flow is heavy, change it every four hours... if it still hurts/pulls/feels like a vacuum, next time, leave it a bit longer.
It sounds silly, but sometimes it just takes practice. I haven't bought pads in YEARS. I solely use tampons now (and pantiliners for the occasionally oopsie), even wearing em overnight. Personally I use Playtex... I've found that Tampax expands lengthwise which sometimes hurts to take out on lightdays. But again, find what YOU like.
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Re: Tampons good.... pads BAAAAD!!!! lol
Date: 2001-08-21 07:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2001-08-22 12:21 am (UTC)I suggest to start using them a few days before you go to the beach... just to get used to them and so your not so worried about it.
just take it easy and relax. getting tense will only add to the discomfort
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Date: 2001-08-22 01:01 am (UTC)Re:
Date: 2001-08-22 12:58 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2001-08-22 01:35 am (UTC)And, as for the brands and labels, I think o.b. comfort is /may be the best choice, because it's so small. it's wihout applicator, yes, but I've never used, or even tried using applicator ones.
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Date: 2001-08-22 12:37 pm (UTC)hey!
i am, the tampon-less wonder
Date: 2001-08-29 10:59 am (UTC)Re: i am, the tampon-less wonder
Date: 2001-08-30 07:45 pm (UTC)