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[comedythefarie.livejournal.com]

I have a question pertaining to sex. First of all My boyfriend and I have had sex a couple of times but, He has Trouble getting his penis in . The only way we get it in is if I'm on top and thats not comfortable for me. Can ay of you sugget something that may help?

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[maegodw.livejournal.com]

First and foremost, I would take a long time to even approach penetration...try not to make intercourse the "goal." Get really, really relaxed. Kiss each other for a long time.

I would suggest pleasuring in each in other ways first...maybe some oral sex for both of ya. It might be easier if you have an orgasm before he attempts penetration- that way, you're vaginal is a little more open and your juices might be flowing more.

Try lube, too. Astroglide works wonders and it's about $8 a pop. Makes everything smooth and slippery and open- and the cool thing about Astroglide is that when it dries out, there's no need to apply more- just wet the area with some spit or water, and the lube is reactivated!

Mmm, love astroglide.

[moolahboots.livejournal.com]

hey this is unrelated, but I don't get your icon? Tea is like abortion how?
I'm sure I'll feel stupid soon for not getting it.

[maegodw.livejournal.com]

Tea isn't like abortion at all- the icon is meant to be shocking and nonsensical.
Although, tea can be used to induce miscarriage and prompt menstruation.

[moolahboots.livejournal.com]

Ahhh okay. I like it.

[darlahood.livejournal.com]

Find a boyfriend with a larger penis.

[maiden-midwife.livejournal.com]

how rude!

[bluejupiter.livejournal.com]

I don't really understand what you mean by he can't get his penis in. Is he using his hands to help him guide it? If not, then obviously he'll have trouble. Not using your hands to guide it in is like trying to feed someone - and you're both blindfolded.

Was he your first? If so, you may have a thick hymen and it could take several tries at sex before you 'loosen up', which could be painful for you. This happened to me, the first few times at sex were very painful for me.

I agree with the first commenter, maybe try a lubricator. If you're under 18 then obviously you can't go into a sex shop, but you can get KY Jelly at any drugstore. And go NICE AND SLOW. It's more fun that way, anyways. :D

[stretchlikeacat.livejournal.com]

DEFINITELY use a lubricant. Go slow, focus on foreplay, try to relax (difficult, I know)...

If you can, join this community (sextips) and check out these threads, you might found them helpful...

http://www.livejournal.com/community/sextips/1219500.html
http://www.livejournal.com/community/sextips/2876818.html

Good luck.