Sex with Instead?

[melochromatic.livejournal.com]

Has anyone had experience with having sex while wearing an Instead? I'm starting my period any minute now, and my boyfriend's coming home tonight after being away for several weeks, so I put in an Instead because I've heard you can have sex with them in (never tried, though). But when I...feel around up there, it seems like he'll be able to feel the hard plastic edge and it will hurt like heck, or he won't even be able to get in.

Any experiences? Good/bad? Does that fact that he'll be able to feel it mean it's not in far enough? It's not hurting me, which I took to mean that it was in all the way, but maybe it's not...

x-posted to the_keeper

Comments

[warmpinkglow.livejournal.com]

I use Insteads as well.

It should be way up in there, behind your pelvic bone. If you put it in far enough and are not a tiny person, it should be just fine.

[lesbianic.livejournal.com]

If it's sitting behind your pubic bone, he shouldn't be able to feel it. I've had sex with an Instead in at least a half dozen times, and I've never had a problem.

[lesbianic.livejournal.com]

*pubic/pelvic

[rivetkitten.livejournal.com]

my first time with my current s.o. i used an instead.

i didn't tell him, and he didn't notice.

still doesn't know...

[silvertipwings.livejournal.com]

my bf knew i had one in and couldn't feel it (or any other differance). i know some guys who've felt them, but those were all times when the chik didn't have it in the right place or was really small (under 5' with small frame).

[bi-ballerina.livejournal.com]

I think it depends on the people and what positions you're in. . .
because I have had sex where I've felt it against my cervix, and if that is the case they would be able to tell that it is there.