First post...

[bayprincess2003.livejournal.com]

Okay hi my name is Andi and this is my first post. It's great to be here. So i have this guy question. Okay so i like my best friend...and i have liked him for the last month. And well a couple of weeks ago he meet this girl through me...big mistake there. And so he started to like her and she kinda likes him. So now here i am in the middle of them having to hear every single word that they speak of each other. And so now here i am secretly still crushing on him and all upset crying at night when i talk to him online because it's the only time when i don't see him but still have to hear about him talk about her. And when i do see him and he talks about her i have to hold back the tears. So my question is should i stop crushing and move on or come out with the truth?

Please help me...i don't think i can take this pain any longer.

Comments

[kari.livejournal.com]

I wouldn't say anything. Unless they are doing something to hurt you on purpose, I don't see what bringing it up would do. It might affect your friendship with both of them.

I'm sorry you're feeling so bad. One of my friends has had that same situation. So from her experience, I'd say the best thing to do is a) try to move on, and b) when they start gushing about each other, try to move the conversation onto some other topic. If you're like me, you can mention one word to your best friend and a new conversation begins. I don't mean cutting them off in the middle of saying how wonderful the other person is, just ask how their English paper is going. I hope that things go OK.