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[-hidethedetails.livejournal.com]

So hi, i'm new to the who bloging thing and apparently it's addicting! Anyhoo, I'm not even really sure if this is in the right community but it won't hurt to try So on to the question/problem and since its long I'll cut it..


So onto it- I know that every women goes through hormonal changes, mood swings before and during her cycle but every month usually right before I start getting these terrible feelings of dislike and just finding everything wrong, feeling really insecure around him and doubting the relationship towards my boyfriend. It usually goes away after so I try to push it far awar from my mind but we usually end up fighting and have broken up a few times during it and I just wonder if it really is normal to have the same exact feelings every month. And it's not because he's a bad guy because he really isn't, we've been friends the past six years and have tried going out before but "youngin situations" occured and he really is a great guy. I'm really superstitious and so I don't know if I should take it as a sign that we shouldn't be together or I'm just nuts and I really can't remember if I had these reoccuring type feelings towards other things before we starting going out.

So yea, that is my situation and any input would be GREATLY appreciated! Even a redirection to a more appropriate community?

<3

Comments

[nzgoddess.livejournal.com]

what do you mean by 'youngin situations' ?

all i can guess is that you got pregnant ???

hmm .. anyways .. maybe it would help to chart your cycle & moods, you may see a pattern of when your moody/low etc & maybe do something nice for yourself on those day (and steer clear of 'him' on those days) ?? or you may like to try a herbal or vitamin suppliment like evening primrose oil - it helps balance some people out ..

just a thought ♥

[-hidethedetails.livejournal.com]

oh i meant we just starting high school and neither of us had a car and we live far enough away that it takes 10-15 driving (w/traffic) and 30 min on bus, 2 hrs walking that it was just inconvienant.

my cycle is pretty regular. before i went on bc i would get my per. about a week or a few days earlier each month and on bc until a few months after it would come on the same day and now its starting to comea day later every month and i have noticed that i get crazy and whatnot a few days before and when it comes im just in too much pain to care, lol.

that vitamin/herbal idea sounds really good. i was technically diagnosed with Bipolar II but that was also when I did a few drugs but ever since i just get really moody PMS.

sorry, this came out longer then expected :)

[herekittykitty.livejournal.com]

oh lord, that happens EVERY MONTH for me. last week even, we had a huge fight over nothing. I've just told him to work overtime that week, don't come near me, and we're fine. try doing something fun with him those days- like taking a trip to the beach or to a park or something. that usually helps for me. good luck!!

[-hidethedetails.livejournal.com]

wow, that is definitely refreshing to know that i'm not the only one then. thanks for the input!

[snapdragon-666.livejournal.com]

I used to get like that with my ex boyfriend. I can only put it down to hormones, even though i didn't have regular periods at all. I have a boyfriend now and i'm on the pill. I get pretty tearful during the four days between my last pill and my period and i think he's bored of me or i just miss him so much i cry and cry and cry... it's just hormones though, they do funny things to you.