Sex with Instead?

[melochromatic.livejournal.com]

Has anyone had experience with having sex while wearing an Instead? I'm starting my period any minute now, and my boyfriend's coming home tonight after being away for several weeks, so I put in an Instead because I've heard you can have sex with them in (never tried, though). But when I...feel around up there, it seems like he'll be able to feel the hard plastic edge and it will hurt like heck, or he won't even be able to get in.

Any experiences? Good/bad? Does that fact that he'll be able to feel it mean it's not in far enough? It's not hurting me, which I took to mean that it was in all the way, but maybe it's not...

x-posted to the_keeper

OTC pregnancy test effective??

[bi-ballerina.livejournal.com]

My period is 10 days late. I have taken two over the counter pregnancy tests that have come out negative. I have had sex with a condom, the condom didn't break.
How likely do you think it is that I am pregnant?