if you can't ask it here, where can you?

[mandolin64.livejournal.com]

first post of the new year :) anyway, girls... i need some help here... not really period related, but maybe, kinda sorta... like the subject says, if you can't ask it here, where can you? anyway, i've got a problem... after my boyfriend gets me off sometimes i just fall completely out of the mood.. i'm worse than a guy sometimes, i've even just rolled over and fallen asleep afterwards!!! anyway, he can tell i'm out of the mood after it... and it's a problem because he's giving and giving and giving and i can't even get back to returning the favor... if you get my drift! does anyone know a solution? or has anyone had this problem as well?! please help!!

Comments

[the-marionette.livejournal.com]

I have that problem. I'm the roll over and go to sleep sort. Oddly enough I never used to be. I found the best thing to do is take the guy's side of things, be last. Give first, receive second.

[gigglinggorgon.livejournal.com]

I'm the same way, but so is my hubby, so it works out.

[isolt.livejournal.com]

mmm, I had that problem in reverse for a while, so I started making sure that my bf made me come before I was willing to do much for him.

my suggestion to you is that you do something similar -- don't let him near you until he's gotten off, and then it's your turn.

of course, every couple works things out differently, but from what I've observed just in my relationship, it all tends to even out in the end.

[paperkim.livejournal.com]

try asking in sextips. That place is good to ask that question...