men r stupid

[kaypoisson.livejournal.com]

guys should just NOT talk about porn to girls. it's really blah and makes one feel blah, u know? like blah?

<see my angry pic *grrrr*

Comments

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I don't mind at all when boys talk about porn to me, depending on which boys, which porn, and how they talk about it.

[kaypoisson.livejournal.com]

i know that is like a random post but this community is all women (probably) and i feel comfortable posting it here for some reason, so i hope u all dont mind. plus, i was feeling kinda down and i wanted to be all happy riffic when he and i talked but he just had to talk about porn. gr

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

Okay, one of the times they shouldn't talk about it is when the person they're talking to doesn't want to. One of the other times is when they can't manage to talk about anything else.

re: Blah

[darsjournal.livejournal.com]

I know how you feel. The thing is, when you are feeling a little less confident or just not up to par when a guy talks about porn it sets you up to feel worse. If you are feeling pepping and confident then it can be a bit of a turn on, as you don't feel like it is a comparison, but rather a sharing situation. Does that make sense?

Re: Blah

[ilubmoney.livejournal.com]

makes perfect sense to me. however, i dont really consider myself very confident, but porn talk is a turn-on to me. maybe it just depends.

or maybe i'm more confident than i think i am.

*wanders off to ponder some more*

Re: Blah

[kaypoisson.livejournal.com]

i totally dont mind porn. i just dont like lesbian porn. like, the other stuff is kinda a turn on but when guys talk about how great lesbian porn is and how sexy it is, im like, eh..okay.

[bonniebon.livejournal.com]

I can actually enjoy porn with my guy (has to be stuff I approve of though, no cheap n' tacky trash), but I'm bisexual so heh that's probaly why. But yeah, it can make you insecure when guys go on about how sexy porno women are (luckily my bf doesnt!)

[ilubmoney.livejournal.com]

i'm straight, and lesbian porn is (sometimes) a turn-on.

i guess in the end, it's to each her own. whatever floats your boat. =)