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menstrualhutHow many of you women out there have the most amazing sex on your periods???
I swear... it gets downright spiritual.
I swear... it gets downright spiritual.
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Date: 2002-03-16 03:25 pm (UTC)"he's doing it for him"
Date: 2002-03-17 06:57 am (UTC)He's always doing for "him". He truly wants you if there is a commitment...are you married to him?
Amazing the way a lass will try and rationalize sinful(to your soul)actions. "He wants me"...yes, as long as you give it to him for free.
Re: "he's doing it for him"
Date: 2002-03-17 11:06 am (UTC)Tell boyfriend 'no sex' until marriage...and see how 'meaning-full' he gets.
Amazing...and we girls wonder why we are called the "weaker sex".
*stab*
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Date: 2002-03-17 12:55 pm (UTC)(PS-men would learn to wait, and respect you for it...if not screw him, you don't need the heartache. At least I know me husband wanted me, not just me flesh. Anyway, my father also waited and still loves me mum after 56 years of marriage. Not everyone comes from a dysfunctional family, ya know, believe it or not!)
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My husband and I had sex for 4 years before we were married, and we've been married for close to 20 years now and together for 24 years. The first, and hopefully the last, marriage for both of us.
My parents also had sex before they were married and have been married for 37 years. Also their first, and hopefully last, marriage.
Premarital sex in no way implies that the man doesn't care for the woman and won't marry her because he's getting sex *for free* (free apparently being without having to commit to marriage in your warped anonymous view.)
There are also couples who don't ever wish to legally tie the knot, but simply live together in a loving, caring, committed and SEXUAL relationship for their whole lives. A piece of paper saying their committment is legal doesn't mean it'll last, and not having that piece of paper doesn't mean they're any less committed to each other.
And if a man is told he can't have sex until marriage why would you assume he's marrying you because he loves you and wants to spend his life with you? Maybe he's just marrying you so he can finally get laid!!
How positively laughable.
Nu
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Date: 2002-03-17 01:41 pm (UTC)I still stand by me initial point...calling an orgasm "spiritual" is insulting to those who are true 'spiritualists'. Is it that easy to understand who God/Goddess is?...just screw while bleeding?
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Date: 2002-03-17 02:08 pm (UTC)stop being so fucking anonymous too
Re: *stab*
Date: 2002-03-17 02:50 pm (UTC)Two words, Sweetie..."ANGER MANAGEMENT".
You young lassies just don't get it, do you? Just don't go and get all dramatic and whiny when your boyfriend leaves you for some "fresh meat". Unless you are so brainwashed that you think that its supposed to be that way.
PS..what difference does it make if I add a name? What would it matter?
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Date: 2002-03-17 06:53 pm (UTC)Re: *stab*
Date: 2002-03-18 11:43 am (UTC)I was raised to believe in no sex before marriage, to even feel guilty for feelings of desire that I had no intent of acting on, yet it didn't stop me... just made me feel worthless and suicidal with my first pregnancy.
But now, now I am GLAD I lived with my husband first, so I could deal with some of our issues before I felt trapped by them, and my grandmother felt the same way about her marriage. I am sorry if it offends your religious or moral beliefs, but the fact that you don't agree with this point of view makes it no less valid or spritually appropriate for the individuals involved.
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Date: 2002-03-17 09:03 pm (UTC)Re: "he's doing it for him"
Date: 2002-03-17 03:29 pm (UTC)Re: "he's doing it for him"
Date: 2002-03-18 11:31 am (UTC)and YES we are married, but it was just as GOOD when we were fornicating, just as spiritual, just as beautiful. In fact, recently I have been wishing we had just stayed engaged and not gotten married, though I felt enough guilt without the likes of you butting in before!!!
ditto
Date: 2002-03-16 05:29 pm (UTC)"Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 06:30 am (UTC)Sex outside of marriage is exploitation of the soul..how dare you think it is "spiritual"?
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Date: 2002-03-17 08:51 am (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 11:17 am (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 02:07 pm (UTC)My own view or heart or soul is irrelivent here- what angers me is your belief that you're right, and the rest of the world therefor MUST be wrong. what's right to you may not be right for your neighbour- but who are you to JUDGE another? no human is so perfect they have the right to judge the morals or beliefs of others without engaging in hypocracy.
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Date: 2002-03-17 02:35 pm (UTC)As far as following morals and beliefs, certain values are universal. If we just made up our own version by what 'feels good', chaos would rule.
I'm only asking my sisters to control their five senses, a basic tenant of any belief system.
This world is still ruled my men who will use a lass and leave her in the dirt, for the sake of some sensual enjoyment. This is what women's rights have lead us to? We are giving permission to men now to exploit and rape us, physically, mentally and emotionally? Me mum didn't suffer just to give me the right to have some bloke say, "hey, you're liberated now, let me ENJOY".
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Date: 2002-03-17 03:20 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 03:19 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 03:27 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 03:39 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 04:16 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 04:06 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 04:10 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 01:27 pm (UTC)I'm not a Christian and don't believe in the Christian God, yet I consider myself to be a spiritual being.
Nu
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Date: 2002-03-17 03:19 pm (UTC)Re: "Spiritual Sex"
Date: 2002-03-17 06:34 pm (UTC)my counsellor says maybe that will change over time but..i dunno...i dont think u need to be criticized for what u think..but u didnt need to think that their beliefs were wrong either....
i seee where you're coming from though....