Pass the Painkillers

[p0rnstarr.livejournal.com]

I have a question for you all. I've found that i get more horny when i'm on my period than when i'm not. does this happen to anyone else?

Also, my boyfriend insists that he has a small penis. I've tried making him feel better, and explained that I feel like i have small boobs. I really dont think he has a small penis, and i'm trying to make him feel more confident about it. any suggestions?

And another thing.. can someone give me some feed back about anal sex? my boyfriend and i have talked about it, and we both dont think we're into it. however, i've heard it feels really good. Doesnt the guy get shit on his dick? Isnt it gross? please help.. it would be great if people had any stories or personal experiences with this, because i'm kind of nervous. thanks!

please comment you guys. i need help.

Comments

[geminigirl]

With all the hormonal changes going on during menstruation, horniness is pretty common.

As for your boyfriend's penis...average is anywhere between five to seven inches when erect. One's size when flaccid says nothing about the size of the erection.

On anal sex...whether or not it feels good is a very personal preference. Personally, for me, the feeling of motion felt icky, but the feeling of fullness didn't. Yes, sometimes feces gets on the penis, during anal sex, which is why it's very important never to insert the penis into the anus and then switch to the vagina without changing condoms or washing up...and the reverse applies. Start small...mess around inserting a finger, and then maybe a second. Wear gloves-it's messy, it makes clean up easier, and most importantly, it prevents scratching and sometimes tearing the delicate skin of the anus. Anal fissures are uncomfortable and can be dangerous. Remember, the anus doesn't produce it's own lubrication like the vagina does...so use plenty of lube for whatever you're doing. Lots and lots-more than you think you need. Relax...go slowly, and remember that if it hurts that's your signal that something's not quite right. You might also try rimming (oral-anal sex)-once again-use a barrier-a dental dam, a cut open unlbricated condom or plastic wrap. You can put a bit of lube on the side of the barrier against the body to make it feel a bit more slippery.

Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin or The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women</> by Tristan Taromino are good books on the subject to check out too.

[p0rnstarr.livejournal.com]

thank you for the information. i really appreciate it.

[sabbysteg.livejournal.com]

Personally, I almost always have a higher sex drive near and during my period.

To make him more confident about his penis size, try complimenting him when he's not talking about how insecure he feels. Also, as long as it's true, tell him that he more than satisifies you, etc. It may not help, but then again, it might.

As for anal sex, what geminigirl said. I personally am not into it and the idea of it turns me off, so I've never tried it, but different strokes for different folks.

[achtungbaby.livejournal.com]

not wanting to sound icky bout the anal sex thing. but i've found that if i make a "movement" before we have anal sex, there is either none or virtually no mess afterwards for either of us. BUT...if you are going to have unprotected anal sex. having sperm ISNT to fun. cause it wants to come out right away. so you'd have to take a nice seat on the potty for a while.

gimme some lovin!

[ciarajanae.livejournal.com]

i don't know much about anal sex, but horny? oh *hells* yeah. not to be too enthusiastic or anything, but i'm having my period right now, and i'm just about to die of abstinence.

stupid "no sex while you're bleeding" boyfriend. sigh. guess nobody's perfect...

[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

with me, since I'm young and don't have any trace of a sex life, I find that I sort of like my crush a bit more. So like today, since it's the first day, I'm more than willing to screw him eightyten times... although I can't.... but usually I'd rather not fuck anyone...... well what I'm saying is that I have more hormonal activity going on when I'm in a puddle of blood than not... so that's probably what's going on with you and everyone else.