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[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

Whoo. I'm done. I think. Well there was nothing after the night so I'm assuming it's over. Yeah last night sucked cause I just started thinking about *that guy in my user pic* and I wanted to do ....you know.. stuff but I couldn't cause damn periods suck. Ok well anyways... to quote Molly Ringwald from 'Not Another Teen Movie', "I think masterbation is very healthy'. I have a question. Do any of you masterbate while on your monthly? I was just wondering, cause I mean, I've like never done it and I'm curious about it. Well you don't have to answer if you don't want to. I"m not expecting many responses. Thanks.

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[melly-issa.livejournal.com]

I find that I am particularly horny while I am on my period, and my boyfriend is adamantly against menstrual sex, so sometimes, I just have to take care of it myself. The idea of bloody fingers isn't exactly sexy to me, so I try to put pressure on my clitoris through my underwear. (since I am telling you that anyway, I might as well not hold anything back, right?;) ) I've never fingered myself when I was periodic, but then again, i don't usually do that so ...yeah ... there you go.

[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

I haven't actually done it myself yet. I've done it sort of through the underwear, but I haven't gone full on yet. So I've heard that it's pretty good stuff, especially when you're young like me and it's not so easy to get :-P

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[melly-issa.livejournal.com]

what do you mean? sex?

[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

I've heard that sex/masterbation is good, but sex is something that I am neither prepared nor ready forat this time although I'd like to screw that guy in my userpic LOL but those are just silly thoughts

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[melly-issa.livejournal.com]

Yeah, masturbation is good for, if nothing else, knowing what youlike once you feel you are ready for sex. And definitely keep that attitude that you won't do it til you're ready. Its better that way (lol It feels like I m lecturing you. I am only like 3 years older than you :P)

[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

Yeah well I'm almost 15 so I should be educated :)

why not?

[inchcafe.livejournal.com]

I personally enjoy masturbating, reguardless of what day of the month it is. I'm naturally a very dry person, so sometimes having that extra lubrication is quite nice, especially when my girlfriend's in the mood too. I personally don't have a problem with menstrual sex. It's natural, it happens, what's the big deal? I say go with your bad self and have a good time. And if you're not fond of bloody fingers, vibrators work wonders. As do mobile shower heads, and the faucet in the bath tub. Take a nice bath to soothe away the cramps (or at least that's what you can tell your mom) lock the door, get into the water before it's full, lay on your back and slide down until you are right under the water stream. Place your legs vertical, against the wall of the whower, and position yourself whichever way feels best with the water flow. Have a great time!

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[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

that bit about the bathtub sounds like something Id like to try sometime maybe. Thanks for your help. Damn hormones LOL

[inanna.livejournal.com]

i am all for masturbation! :D i was quite young when i started, so it has been a part of my life for over 27 years (and i am 33). i used to have terrible cramps when i was younger (i still have them occasionally, but nothing like what i had early on) and i found that masturbation was a GREAT pain reliever. It makes sense, as an orgasm is a rhythmatic contraction of the uterus (and vagina and surrounding tissues), followed by a release .... the release part gets rid of the cramps (which are painful, uterine contractions).

What i used to do (and still do most of the time when alone) is to stimulate my entire labia/clitoral area - the rythmatic "humping" kind of motion doesn't need to be skin-to-skin to feel great, so it doesn't matter if i am wearing a pad, clothing, or nothing. Try a variety of methods and see what works best for you.

As for "bloody fingers" - well, they aren't a turn on in and of themselves (for me), but it is just another fluid (like my lubrication fluids, saliva, etc. ) - not hard to wash up afterwards.

My 2 cents is to explore a lot now - before you start having sex. Really take time to find out what gives you pleasure. From where to touch (not just genitals/breasts, but neck, chest, thighs, ass, etc.), quality of touch (soft, light, firm, hard, etc.), variety of touch, and so much more. That way, when you do decide to take a lover, you will know what pleases you and you can show/tell him/her what you like... and ask what they like. It will make the whole sexual experience a better one all around if you know what you like and don't have to hope and pray that your partner can figure it out for you ;>

blessings...
inan

[morning-stand.livejournal.com]

That really helped me a lot. Thanks. I'll be sure to try some stuff..