I want to thank everyone who entered the debate about the birthcontrol question I posted last night.
All of your answers were very engaging and awesome to read.
There are so many different POVs and a lot of similar ones, too.
I believe that while a male pill would be something viable, there is just as much risk with women lying about being on the pill as men who might lie about being on the Pill. Sometimes women lie about being on the pill to have a kid so that a guy will stay with her. Guys might lie about being on the pill to get a woman to sleep with him, who knows?
As women, we do carry the ramifications of "getting" pregnant. We make a decision to keep the fertilized egg or not. We carry the result for 9 months and choose to give the baby up for adoption or take care of the child the best we can for the rest of our lives. I believe that it is partly our responsibility and partly the responsibility of the partner we chose to engage in intercourse with.
Again, I want to thank everyone for debating!
:)
All of your answers were very engaging and awesome to read.
There are so many different POVs and a lot of similar ones, too.
I believe that while a male pill would be something viable, there is just as much risk with women lying about being on the pill as men who might lie about being on the Pill. Sometimes women lie about being on the pill to have a kid so that a guy will stay with her. Guys might lie about being on the pill to get a woman to sleep with him, who knows?
As women, we do carry the ramifications of "getting" pregnant. We make a decision to keep the fertilized egg or not. We carry the result for 9 months and choose to give the baby up for adoption or take care of the child the best we can for the rest of our lives. I believe that it is partly our responsibility and partly the responsibility of the partner we chose to engage in intercourse with.
Again, I want to thank everyone for debating!
:)
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Date: 2003-02-26 05:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-02-26 05:32 pm (UTC)But I said "might"...not that it "is" viable "now".
"cool"
":)"
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Date: 2003-02-26 05:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-02-26 05:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-02-26 05:47 pm (UTC)no subject
I split the cost of condoms with my bf.
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Date: 2003-02-26 07:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-02-27 07:09 am (UTC)In the UK Birth control, if obtained by the female at least, is free - I took the pill for 17 years and paid not a penny. A friend asked for condoms as her BC method & were again provided free.
Personally I also think that basic menstural products should be equally gratis - but maybe that is taking the NHS for a ride? At least they are zero tax, like food.
Condoms were originally created to prevent STDs, not primarily as BC - hence max benifit to the male (sorry, cynical today).
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Date: 2003-03-02 12:02 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-03-02 12:03 am (UTC)