The Waiting Game

[nyterhaven.livejournal.com]

The ol' period's late. Just by a couple days. Its fun, watching my man squirm and worry so. Its sadistic, I love it. He cracks me up. He asks me about 25 or more times a da if I'm pregnant. hhehehehe He's a riot. Unfortunately, he's starting to get on my nerves. It was funny the first couple days it was late, but now he's getting annoying. So as much as I hate the fun to stop, I wish my period would start. Maybe next month he can get to squirm and fidget some more :) Anybody know how to make a stubborn period come when ya need it?? :)

Comments

we shall wait together

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

yay!!!!, im waiting too!!!..hahahaaha I've already started picking out baby names!..this is fun!, im like the total opposite of you, while your hoping yours comes, im praying mine doesn't! ..lets trade! :)

Re: we shall wait together

[nyterhaven.livejournal.com]

OH now, I'd be completely thrilled if it did not come. It's just he's getting on my nerves that's all. Believe me, I'd LOVE another baby. I'd be pregnant all the time. :)
How late are you? You cn test the first day of your missed period :) (I'm a pregnancy-a-holic...so if it turns out you are, and you have any questions, feel free to run 'em by me...I love stuff like that)

only 3 days..

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

yeah only 3 days .but mine usually comes on time for like forever now!!!!..but yes, my boyfriend calls me a " pregnancy-a-holic" hahahahhaaha..yay! we can pop out babies!, I love fetal development! *warm thoughts* it makes me feel all happy and warm inside

Re: only 3 days..

[pootrootbeer.livejournal.com]

Women like you should not be allowed to have a uterus.

Re: only 3 days..

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

what the hell is that supposed to mean? I dont ever recall talking to YOU!, so whats your problem!?

Re: only 3 days..

[nyterhaven.livejournal.com]

I have to agree. What on earth was that supposed to mean?? I LOVED being pregnant. I'd pop out bebies til the day I can no longer do so if possible. One right after another. I want to be a surrogat, I loved pregnancy so much. What on earth is wrong with being in love with your feminity and loving pregnancy and things related to it? That's an awful harsh one liner my friend.

Re: only 3 days..

[ernunnos.livejournal.com]

Sport breeding is selfish. Just because you're prepared to pop one out doesn't mean you're prepared to raise it.

Bringing a kid into the world just so you can get your jollies is despicable.

Re: only 3 days..

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

"sport breeding"?, thats a new one. I wouldn't evem dare think of bringing a child into this world if I wasn't emotionaly and/or financially stable. So before you come attacking me, I think you should at least get your facts straight.

Re: only 3 days..

[pentomino.livejournal.com]

Yeah, get your facts straight. How do you know she's not trying to sell them on the black market?

Re: only 3 days..

[eyelid.livejournal.com]

*laughing*

"babies are cute... and a good source of cash so I can go get more drugs!"

eww..typos

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

Evem*=even Emotionaly= emotionally

Sorry!

Re: only 3 days..

[ernunnos.livejournal.com]

Was I talking to you? No, I was not.

Of course, if you think that my comments about selfish cows apply to you, then they must. But I didn't say so.

Re: only 3 days..

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

I couldn't help but think so. seeing that you posted right under me ...

Re: only 3 days..

[ernunnos.livejournal.com]

No I did not. I replied to this (http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?itemid=5841733&thread=7397057#t7397057) post. If you're too dumb to read, please don't breed. We already have over six billion people on the planet. We certainly don't need more illiterate ones.

Re: only 3 days..

[pootrootbeer.livejournal.com]

Creating new life is the most serious responsibility a human being can undertake, and you two are treating it like it's a god damn game. The purpose of pregancy is not to make women feel good about themselves.

I'm not even going to start in on the reasons why pot smokers and high school students shouldn't be getting knocked up...

lets get this straight

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

"Creating new life is the most serious responsibility a human being can undertake, and you two are treating it like it's a god damn game"

- I don't ever recall saying that pregnancy was "fun and games," I actually take pregnancy VERY seriously,(I was not serious when I was talking to that other girl about being " a pregnancy-a-holic", we were having friendly chit chat). Like I told the guy above, I would not bring a life into this world if I was not financially stable as well as emotionally.

"The purpose of pregnancy is not to make women feel good about themselves."

- *raises eyebrow* so getting pregnant should make you feel bad? What exactly are you trying to say here?

"I'm not even going to start in on the reasons why pot smokers and high school students shouldn't be getting knocked up..."

- No, you really don't need to "start." As a matter of fact you shouldn't have started to begin with. I am an adult, I don't need you telling me when I can and cannot have children. IM not living off of welfare or any other type of financial assistance therefore I'd appreciate it if you would stop with all the negative comments.

Re: lets get this straight

[eyelid.livejournal.com]

"The purpose of pregnancy is not to make women feel good about themselves."

- *raises eyebrow* so getting pregnant should make you feel bad? What exactly are you trying to say here?

he's saying that pregnancy is much more serious than "oh, I love being pregnant, let's have lots of babies! Of course I'm 16 and unmarried and can't support them... but so what? Babies are cute!"

"IM not living off of welfare or any other type of financial assistance therefore I'd appreciate it if you would stop with all the negative comments. "

...living w/the parent/s doesn't count as financial assistance? *raising eyebrow*

Re: lets get this straight

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

"he's saying that pregnancy is much more serious than "oh, I love being pregnant, let's have lots of babies! Of course I'm 16 and unmarried and can't support them... but so what? Babies are cute!"

- eyelid, that was so not what I was even trying to say( I was only being silly, talking to her). I know that babies are more than just "fun and games",thats why I'd really like to wait. But if I am already in fact pregnant than thats something that Im willing to take full responsibility for.

And as far as me living with my parents, that would only be for the time being. My parents would not just let me free load off of them for something that is supposed to be My Boyfriend and I's responsibility.

Re: lets get this straight

[eyelid.livejournal.com]

But if I am already in fact pregnant than thats something that Im willing to take full responsibility for.

I know you have strong feelings about abortion, but just remember that if you are pregnant, you can always give the child up for adoption if you're not ready (which I doubt you are-- after all, I'm married, I have a good job, my husband has a good job, we've both got college degrees, health insurance, etc., and we want children.. but we still don't feel that we're ready yet). My brother is an adopted child and we're very happy that his mother made that choice. At this point in your life, trying to raise a child is probably the most irresponsible option.

Re: lets get this straight

[pootrootbeer.livejournal.com]

"My parents would not just let me free load off of them for something that is supposed to be My Boyfriend and I's responsibility."

Please keep in mind that I am not implying that Your Boyfriend does not love you, but... if you are pregnant, don't be surprised when he walks out on you. Maybe you're okay with cancelling your plans for the rest of your life as a result of a bit of irresponsible fun, but that doesn't mean he will be.

That is, assuming either of you had any plans for the rest of your lives to begin with.

Re: lets get this straight

[pootrootbeer.livejournal.com]

"I actually take pregnancy VERY seriously,(I was not serious when I was talking to that other girl..."

- You take it seriously but you don't. Okay.

"so getting pregnant should make you feel bad? What exactly are you trying to say here?"

- What I'm saying is that pregnancy is not about how the mother feels at all -- it's the child that's developing that matters. You seem to focus on how it would make YOU feel to be carrying a child in your belly, and glossing over the fact that once the kid's born, she or he will piss, puke, and shit all over you. This stage has been known to last up to 20 years -- is that really worth it for 9 months of maternal euphoria?

your advice is appreciated

[(Anonymous)]

I just want to say that I appreciate all of your advice on MY life. I don't agree with most of it. but I do in fact respect all of the time and effort you spent in giving me the advice you thought would be "helpful". so once again thank you :)

Re: your advice is appreciated

[extremelybitter.livejournal.com]

sorry, that was from me

Re: your advice is appreciated

[pootrootbeer.livejournal.com]

You see, that's the problem -- we're not just talking about YOUR life, we're talking about the lives of everyone who has contact with you.

Thankfully I am not one of those people.

2 Cents Worth

[freyjasgydhia.livejournal.com]

I've got a few things to say here. First of all, if you feel good about the idea of having another baby go for it! As long as you're ready for it which it sounds like you are there's nothing wrong with it.

Second. I do think we have an obligation to consider what the population of the world looks like. There are problems....

Third. I loved being pregnant!!! It felt good physically and emotionally. It was a time when I felt connected to all women and to life. I felt connected to my ancestors through the women in my family and what they must have gone through. After all the process hasn't changed....

Fourth. Everyone has a right to their opinion A**holes spill out s*** that's life. Sorry if I've made anyone disgusted here but that's how I feel. Feel free to bring it back at me

[dyfferent.livejournal.com]

There's a herb called Black Cohosh which is used with various female problems. It does promote the onset of your period, which is one reason pregnant women should NEVER take it.

Supposedly it's good for menopause symptoms as well. Do check with your healthfood store about precautions, dosage, and potential drug interactions if you decide to use this or any other herb. Hope that helps.